I have been playing pvp ever sense it first came out. Most of my wizards are now 1st age captains or commanders. Right now I have been busy busy busy pvping on my Ice and Myth. When I started to pvp on my Myth, she was level 12. First age captain, now 2nd age warlord(overlord now). And my ice is an undefeated level 20 knight. I am very nice in pvp. Sometimes when I see someone so close to ranking up, I may let them have the match. Or just over all being a good person. I have different strategies in pvp than many others may. I don't enchant, and I only use about 2 tc per match( least as possible) but when your a level 12 warlord you vs like level 42's!! It's ridiculous! And they expect us to defeat them without using tc? Well anyways. When I get paired up with other high ranked pvp people, they are not so nice. They call you noobs, nobody's, and words I am not willing to repeat. While on the other hand if I win or lose I am always cheering: good match! Your great in pvp, good luck further on! And I normally add them. But why are these people so mean? I mean, it's a game, your suppose to have fun right?
LOL, happened to me in a tournament. Fought a warlord in 1v1 tournament, he kept calling me a noob during the match, which I probably am since I don't do ranked. But I won the match and asked him if I was a noob and I won, what does that make him?
Some people are gracious winners or losers, I've chatted up a few people I've won and lost to, we've wished each other luck and commented on some nice moves, even hatched a few pets. While others are just so angry and mean whether they win or lose. I think those people, equate their self worth to winning in a digital world. Their issues with their own self worth cause them to be very unhappy whether winning or losing and well, misery loves company.