i played this game heavily and then took a very long break. coming back into the game and working on my quests. i have a main quest that wants me to go to grizzleheim. i speak to bear by the boat in olde town. he tells me to talk to people when we get to grizzle. but then nothing happens. when i go to grizzleheim through the gate in ravenwood, i get stopped on the other side and told that i arrived by a secret pathway and no one is ready to talk to me. is there a way to reset that quest? i'm really at a loss as to what to try to make it work. please help.